I’ve got a hat!

I have been sharing a party game for over 20 years, which I just realized had some important lessons about normative group dynamics. I explained the game and what I had realized in an NVC group today, and several people asked for the instructions.

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Don’t forget the ice!

This represents a pattern in speech that I learned about from Neuolinguistic Programming as a young teenager. I think it's probably the most common and easiest to avoid blocker to getting our needs met in all of the English language!

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The value of core needs

In a class, the concept of core needs came up and different definitions came up. I shared how I see and use core needs and it resonated with people. Here I explore that in more detail and what it all has to do with the Santa Clause movie.

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Sorry is what people say…

This line on The Morning Show got me exploring the energy of apologies coming from an unconscious and punitive headspace versus those coming from a restorative justice headspace, where we are conscious of feelings and needs not met.

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